That's What Dreams Are Made Of

Gymnasium

2011-09-07T22:11:00.001-06:00

The world is the great gymnasium where we come to make ourselves strong. - Swami Vivekananda

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Juggling

2011-09-06T21:53:00.001-06:00

Imagine life is a game in which you are juggling five balls. The balls are called work, family, health, friends, and integrity. And youre keeping all of them in the air. But one day you finally come to understand that work is a rubber ball. If you drop it, it will bounce back. The other four balls are made of glass. If you drop one of these, it will be irrevocably scuffed, nicked,
perhaps even shattered. And once you truly understand the lesson of the five balls, you will have the beginnings of balance in your life. - James Patterson

I am so not good at this but I love the analogy!

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Homemade

2011-09-05T21:59:00.001-06:00

Just as there is a trend toward high tech today, there is another trend toward high touch ...homemade and wholesome. - Meryl Gardner

My day started with a morning trip to the lake followed by a lovely afternoon nap and wrapped up with a round of homemade raspberry jam...a perfect Labor Day!

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Sneezing

2011-09-04T21:21:00.001-06:00

I used to wake up at 4 A.M. and start sneezing, sometimes for five hours. I tried to find out what sort of allergy I had but finally came to the conclusion that it must be an allergy to consciousness. - James Thurber

Somewhere there is a Flora Coalition that I have clearly pissed off because their pollen army is trying to kill me.

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Library

2011-09-03T21:40:00.001-06:00

Library 2.0 = Books 'n Stuff + People + Radical Trust x Participation

What can I say....I think this guy knows what he is talking about.

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Puzzle

2011-09-02T22:32:00.001-06:00

You are the piece of the puzzle of someone else's life. You may never know where you fit, but others will fill the holes in their lives with the pieces of you. - Katie Dean.

No matter how inconsequential you may think your life's contribution to be....for someone you are a key piece in their life story.

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Excitement?

2011-09-01T23:01:00.001-06:00

"Anxiety is just misplaced excitement!". Cate Blanchett

I am learning that change drives personal evolution. It may not always be comfortable but it sure makes for an exciting ride.

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I love Saturdays!

2011-08-20T23:15:00.001-06:00

Welcome to my perfect napping location....laying in the swing floating side to side as the warm sun shines down on my lazy afternoon. Enjoyed a beautiful day of boating on Willard, brunch with friends and buying fruit at the stands.

Absolutely gorgeous. :)

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New Favorite Quote

2011-05-31T20:21:00.001-06:00

I came across this quote on my friend Sam's Facebook page and just love it ...

"Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things you didn't do than by the ones you did. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover." ~ Mark Twain

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Day 26: 30 Days of Gratitude - Words

2010-12-28T01:40:00.001-07:00

I am a word junkie....I love books, song lyrics, poems, movie dialogue, etc. Throughout the year I collect a set of quotes that describe who I am and what I am feeling at that time.....I love the way anothers words can speak to your soul describing exactly what you could not say yourself. This years favorite quotes include the following:

Go confidently in the direction of your dreams! Live the life you've imagined." - Henry David Thoreau
“Only those who will risk going too far can possibly find out how far one can go.” - T.S. Eliot quotes
"Live out of your imagination, not your history" - Stephen Covey
“Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind.” - Dr. Seuss quotes
“One hour of life, crowded to the full with glorious action, and filled with noble risks, is worth whole years of those mean observances of paltry decorum” -- Sir Walter Scott
“Conquering any difficulty always gives one a secret joy, for it means pushing back a boundary-line and adding to one's liberty.” - Henri Frederic Amiel
“People who don't take risks generally make about two big mistakes a year. People who do take risks generally make about two big mistakes a year.” - Peter F. Drucker
"The two important things I did learn were that you are as powerful and strong as you allow yourself to be, and that the most difficult part of any endeavour is taking the first step, making the first decision.” - Robyn Davidson
"Life should not be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving in an attractive well preserved body; rather to skid in sideways, body thoroughly worn out, covered in scars and screaming “yahoo! What a ride!" - Bear Grylls
"My darling girl, when are you going to understand that being normal is not neccessarily a virtue? It rather denotes a lack of courage." -- Aunt Frances, from the movie "Practical Magic"
"Reveal to them everything there is to know about you and let the chips fall where they may." -- from the movie, "Meet Joe Black"
"Security is mostly a superstition. It does not exist in nature, nor do the children of men as a whole experience it. Avoiding danger is no safer in the long run than outright exposure. Life is either a daring adventure, or nothing." -- Helen Keller
"Oh you fancy huh, Oh you fancy huh.....Nail done, hair done, every thing did" - Drake
"I am fairly certain that given a cape and a nice tiara, I could save the world." - Unknown
"I have come to the frightening conclusion that I am the decisive element. It is my personal approach that creates the climate. It is my daily mood that makes the weather. I possess tremendous power to make life miserable or joyous. I can be a tool of torture or an instrument of inspiration; I can humiliate or humor, hurt or heal. In all situations, it is my response that decides whether a crisis is escalated or de-escalated, and a person is humanized or de-humanized. If we treat people as they are, we make them worse. If we treat people as they ought to be, we help them become what they are capable of becoming." - Goethe

Day 25: 30 Days of Gratitude - Merry Christmas

2010-12-28T00:51:00.001-07:00

Day 24: 30 Days of Gratitude - Christmas Family Memories

2010-12-28T00:30:00.000-07:00

"Family faces are magic mirrors looking at people who belong to us, we see the past, present, and future” Gail Lumet Buckley

For years and years, we have gotten together with my extended family on Christmas Eve to celebrate. In years past this included going to the Cabin at Bear Lake to visit Grandpa Lloyd and Grandma Velma, Christmas Scavenger Hunt's with Grandpa Owen and Grandma Florence or Christmas Extravaganza's with the Hall Ones. For the last several years we have spent Christmas Eve with my Aunt Dianne, Uncle Bruce and our Hall cousins. Each year we unwrap the latest game, gather around the table and enjoy the good times. I am thankful for my family....for those with whom we are making memories now and for those who have passed on leaving us with great stories to recall.

Bear Lake with Scofield Grandparents & Travis: December 1978

Hall Grandparents House: Christmas 1983

Jocelyn & Katrina: Christmas 1981

Day 23: 30 Days of Gratitude - Festival of Trees

2010-12-27T23:41:00.000-07:00

Festival of Trees: December 2010

"For 40 years, the Festival of Trees has ushered in the Holiday Season in Utah. More importantly, every penny raised helps children at Primary Children’s Medical Center. The Festival is organized and orchestrated by volunteers throughout the state and relies on the generous support of those who decorate and purchase trees, wreaths, gingerbread creations, playhouses, centerpieces, and quilts."

Each year the Truman Sisters (Kathy Larsen and her sisters) donate a tree in memory of a loved one who has passed on. This year they asked to donate and decorate their tree in honor of my father.   I was overwhelmed by their kindness, thoughtfulness and generosity. It was so much fun to work with them to create a beautiful tree to honor my father. Thanks Truman sisters as well as Nicole, Jessica and Kimberly for offering me such a wonderful Christmas gift.

The tree was beautiful with these amazing handmade wooden ornaments of trains, planes, bulldozers, tools and cars.   I loved these toys as they reminded me of all the hours spent with my Dad in his shop building furniture and other home projects.

In addition, the Truman sisters made this beautiful quilt to accompany the tree.   The wonderful handmade details of the quilt were lovely paired with our old fashioned Christmas Tree.

Day 22: 30 Days of Gratitude - Rach & Tony

2010-12-27T22:53:00.000-07:00

Rach & Tony: December 2010

Nothing like an extended Christmas travel layover to make your day. My wonderful friends Rachael and Tony stopped in SLC on their way home to Washington for Christmas. We were able to spend 7 glorious hours together. The extended SLC layover has become a bit of a tradition for Rach and I. The first time she took Tony home to meet her family, we had a quick reunion at the security line (where upon meeting Tony for the first time, I may have done an impromptu tap dance...what can I say...I dance when I am nervous). We have also managed quick lunches, snatch & grab shopping trips and home tours all condensed into a couple of stolen (inside time) hours. On this trip we were lucky enough to have dinner with friends old and new as well as a quick trip through Temple Square to see the lights.

Rach, often referred to as Bibe, is one of my favorite people in the whole wide world. We have been friends since fall semester1997 when we bonded over the Practical Grammar Review in Business Writing at BYU (as you can see from my blog...none of that grammar nonsense stuck).

Our real glory days took place in the Michigan a couple years later when Bibe decided to take an offer at Ford Motor Company and move to Michigan where I was working for Ford as well. I had no idea what a lucky set up circumstances had been just been set in motion. We soon became close friends a nearly inseparable dynamic duo. I have been very lucky to have wonderful close friends to share my life with. However, I found upon moving to Michigan that I was missing that special connection you feel with your best friends....it is these people who make our life experiences richer by sharing them. Rachael was truly an answer to my prayers.

We soon set off to make the very most of our early twenties. As two single women with few responsibilities and more cash flow than we were accustomed to...we were a force to be reckoned with. Bibe is one of those people who with just a little convincing is up for anything......paired with my craziness and short attention span...we were always embarking on a new adventure. Whether it be trips to foreign countries, white water rafting, random church activities, dancing in the rain, ward camp outs, local concerts, Christmas Soirees, Sunday dinners, errand running, carpooling (and reverse carpooling) to work, trips to the lake or just taking a walk....all these things were infinitely more fun because we did them together.

Over the years we have grown up and slowed down a little bit but our friendship remains the same. I still love sitting with Bibe and chatting for hours about the same things we have chatted about for years. She has been a rock in the crazy storm of my life when I so much needed one. I appreciate Rachael's special ability to understand me, support me and encourage me to take the next step when my own courage fails. She has the most amazing ability to invite people into her world and make you feel welcome. In addition, I love Bibe's ability to be silly without reservation which we do so well together....when the "Rachael and Jocelyn Show" is in full swing be sure to reserve a front row seat because this is going to be good. Thanks Rach for the wonderful memories of the past of the amazing memories to come. Love Ya.

Jocelyn, Rachael and Dani: December 2010

Day 21: 30 Days of Gratitude - Christmas Movies

2010-12-27T17:44:00.000-07:00

Magic, mystery, scrooges, redemption themes, tinsel, seasonal tunes....I love Christmas movies. In this vein, I am somewhat ashamed to admit I am not the most discriminating Christmas viewer. I love the old classics but can also appreciate the most cheesy of lifetime original movies. What can I say... I am a sucker for the "good times - bad times - good times" plots these movies thrive on. I do however have my time tested favorites which include: White Christmas, Miracle on 34th Street (the old version) and Home Alone.

Day 20: 30 Days of Gratitude - Home Teachers

2010-12-20T22:19:00.002-07:00

or as I call them....two of my favorite church friends. I really love these guys! I know each week as I walk into church (usually running a little late) there will be a place saved just for me on the back row between these two handsome gentlemen. As I sit down, you can count on one of them to help off with my coat, make sure I have a hymn book, hand me a program and tell me I look beautiful today (someone raised these men right). They each carry such a wonderful spirit of kindness, genuine concern and caring in their countenance. I look forward to their monthly home teaching visits where we tend to chat about the world, home repair, family, church and life in general. Each time they visit I feel I am truly cared for and have been taught in a way that only a those with real life experiences can offer. Thank you for kindness.....you have made my life richer through your friendship.

Day 19: 30 Days of Gratitude - Teaching

2010-12-20T21:57:00.001-07:00

Have you ever been asked to teach something to a group or class? If so, you will completely identify with today's gratitude post.

For years, I had the opportunity to be a gymnastics/cheer coach to girls of all ages. I loved the experience of watching the girls learn new things, progress in their skills and develop confidence in their abilities. However, it was really me who was learning the most. They taught me about strength, perseverance, friendship and courage.

Recently, I have been given the opportunity at church to teach our women's group (Relief Society for the Mormon readers) once a month. Of course, I prepare in advance hoping to provide some useful information to the the class. I then begin my lesson and without fail the members of the class once again astound me with their experiences, insights, knowledge, compassion. I feel so lucky to be the one with a front row seat to the "lessons in life" these woman are teaching.

P.S.

I was recently asked to teach Sunday School to the 15-16 year old group.....I am excited and scared to see what these teens have in store for me.....wish me luck!

Day 18: 30 Days of Gratitude - The Olsen Boys

2010-12-20T21:16:00.004-07:00

Jack and Daniel are two of the coolest guys I know. On Saturday, I was lucky enough to get to spend the afternoon ice skating with them. We all bundled into our warmest gear and were off to the Gallivan Center for an afternoon of learning to ice skate. Joc, Jack and Daniel all managed to get to the ice rink, find appropriate skates and shuffle to the ice without incident.

Now the real fun begins!!! Our ice skating adventure started with both boys clutching the wall like a life preserver in shark infested waters. However, after a few times around they were really getting the hang of it. As the ice rink was illuminated with giant flood lights, our little skating stars started to shine with shouts of "let's go faster", "watch me Joc", "let's slam into the wall" and "just one more time" around the rink. We ended our evening with big milkshakes and dinner at Blue Plate....all and all a wonderful way to spend a Saturday afternoon. Thanks boys for letting me play today!

GALLIVAN CENTER ICE RINK: DECEMBER 2010

Here are a few of the things that make these guys so special to me:

JACKSON: I love his curiosity about the world around him.   Jackson is always investigating, learning, reading, asking, experimenting, challenging.   I love that since the age of two, I have been able to have real conversations with this little fella. I love his confidence and self assurance....he is truly an amazing individual.

DANIEL: The dreamer.  I love his imagination and optimism.   He sees the world in such a wonderful and unique way.   I love the way he admires and imitates his older brother. He is also hilarious....suddenly throwing out a quote from a movie, song or book with perfect comedic timing.   One top of all of these qualities, Daniel is scary smart.....I am amazed by the things he understands, remembers and relates.   He is beautiful in every way.

LUKE: Although a bit to small for our ice skating adventure.....This little boy could charm anyone (especially me). I melt every time he walks up to me, holds out his arms and declares "hold you".   I love how each time I walk into the Olsen house, he runs up see see me filled with excitement and usually doing the "Jocy Face" (this is really something you have to see in person to understand).   He is super naughty (which I secretly admire), interested in everything (which I think is fabulous) and one of the sweetest people I know.

Day 17: 30 Days of Gratitude - Wireless

2010-12-18T01:06:00.001-07:00

I love my wireless world. Everything from the phone to the laptop to the TV remote to the printer. With all of these technology advances we have so much information at our fingertips. We have the ability to stay connected to those we love and care about in so many wonderful ways. In addition, I adore the conveniences of sitting on my couch while I type this. In a few minutes I will do a little on-line Christmas shopping, print the receipts to my printer and check facebook to see what my friends are up to today. What an amazing world we live in.

Day 16: 30 Days of Gratitude - Soda

2010-12-16T21:45:00.001-07:00

Yes, soda. If you are an anti-sodaite, you will want to bail out now. As for the rest of us addicts....isn't soda wonderful! There is nothing quite like cracking open a perfectly chilled (I like mine slightly slushy) soda and taking that first sip. First you feel the effervescent tingle of the carbonation then the sweetness of the cola followed by the burn of the bubbles as you swallow. The only thing that could make this experience better is to grab a friend to share it with.
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Day 15: 30 Days of Gratitude - Bubble Baths

2010-12-15T23:28:00.001-07:00

Some days there is just nothing better than sinking into a warm bubble bath. Now I am not talking about some wimpy three inches of water and a few measly bubbles. No, for me, it must be a bathtub filled to the brim with hot water and enough bubbles to cover you completely. When your bath is ready the key is to easy in slowly, lay back and soak in the warm relaxing comfort of a perfect bubble bath.

Day 14: 30 Days of Gratitude - Kim (My Personal Photographer)

2010-12-14T20:42:00.004-07:00

I am one of those incredibly unphotogenic people. The minute it is time to pose for a picture, I suddenly get nervous, fidgety, sweaty and awkward. I am pretty sure that this is due to the forced march of family pictures at Owen Mills during my childhood. We were always perfectly groomed, carefully posed and strategically placed in front on various colored backdrops. I remember the photographer being very annoyed that me and my siblings would blink during the pictures....I mean how are you not supposed to blink when they are flashing a bright light in your eyes. Isn't this kind torture technique outlawed in the Geneva Conventions. On top of this parade of insecurities, I am horrible at the picture smile...... I have one smile and it is the real one which includes too big, too many teeth and scrunched up eyes. The irony of this is that my eyes are one of my favorite features yet they rarely make an appearance in pictures.

The one bright spot in my "personal picture hell" is my Christmas Card picture with Kimberly. When Kim agreed to be my personal Christmas photographer this year, I was thrilled. Kim was the photographer on my first and second Christmas card pictures each of which I loved. Kim is absolutely amazing! She has the most wonderful ability to make you feel completely comfortable, beautiful and confident while taking your picture. Even though I insist that Kim include my uncooperative dog (Toby also has some picture anxiety), she still manages to take the most amazing shots.

Kim is willing to do almost anything to get a great picture. During our session she was balancing on the front bumper of a car while holding Toby's leash and taking my picture (see the result below).

On top of all of this, she has a great eye for locations, forms, poses, color, and light. Every time I see a picture of myself taken by Kim, I can't help but think "maybe I am not cursed with a permanent case of unphotgenicitis". Thank you Kim for making me feel beautiful each year at Christmas time.

Day 13: 30 Days of Gratitude - Fresh Fruit

2010-12-13T20:45:00.001-07:00

There is nothing quite like a perfectly ripened piece of fresh fruit. We are so lucky to be able to run to the grocery store and pick from variety of mouth-watering choices. Some of my very favorites include a mango & blueberry smoothie, bananas & peanut butter or a bowl of fresh berries with a dollop of vanilla yogurt.....Delicious!

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Day 12: 30 Days of Gratitude - Kind Words

2010-12-12T23:04:00.000-07:00

Kind words can be short and easy to speak, but their echoes are truly endless. - Mother Teresa

Have you ever had one of those days where you wake up in the morning feeling....well, kind of crappy but by the end the day you are on top of the world. Today was that kind of day for me. I am not sure what led to my day starting "down" but I am very sure what led to my day ending "up". Today was filled with kind and loving words from individuals from all parts of my life. Have you had one of those moments when someone tells you how they see you and the person they see is someone you would hope to be?

I don't know about you, but I sometimes get stuck in a self-referencing criticism cycle where I question my choices, my actions, my career, my relationships, my appearance, etc. What can I say....the experience of living our lives can be challenging. Generally, I love a good challenge! :) However, I can become frustrated with my performance.....feeling I do not measure up to my potential or personal expectations. It is in these moments that a kind word from a friend, family member, acquaintance or even a stranger can change my view.

There is a life affirming beauty in hearing that someone else in this world sees you for who you are and that what they see is good. To be able to see the beauty in those around you and sincerely compliment them is a special gift. I truly believe that it is through these kind and caring individuals that the Lord helps us realize our true potential. Today, I feel very blessed to have so many kind people in my life.

Day 11: 30 Days of Gratitude - Fire

2010-12-11T23:54:00.003-07:00

The warm, cozy glow of a roaring fire is one of my favorite winter traditions.   I find everything about a real fire to be wonderful.   I love the earthy smell of the wood, the loud cracking of the fire, the messiness of ashes and the elaborate dance of the flames.   What I love most are the memories a beautiful fire recalls.....

My father taught me how to build a proper fire as a young child. He took me and my sister through the importance of paper, kindling, dry wood.....not to mention remembering to open flue.  There was also a brief lesson in what happens when you combine gas and fire.....that was memorable. :)  In what was my Dad's way, he then allowed each of us to test, try, fail, experiment, make messes, burn things until we were each experts in building our own roaring fire.   I can still remember him lounged on the floor in front of the fireplace as we watched a movie together.

Today I am grateful for a warm fire, the skill to build one and the man who taught me how.

Day 10: 30 Days of Gratitude - Movies on the Big Screen

2010-12-11T00:14:00.001-07:00

It is a well known fact that I love almost every movie I see. Of course this means that no one will ever take my movie recommendations. What can I say....I love the movies. In this day and age, we can watch movies on a TV, Laptop or even a Phone. However, I still love the the experience of going to a real theater. I love the huge screen, amazing sound and uncomfortable chairs. I love the reaction of the crowd to the action on the screen. I love the opportunity to watch people in public settings. Today, I had a chance to go to two movies in one day....it was a perfect activity for a rainy and dreary December.

Day 9: 30 Days of Gratitude - Bookies

2010-12-09T23:24:00.002-07:00

One of my favorite things to say when they asked about my plans for the evening is "I am off to Book Club tonight". For some strange reason if you are in a book club people automatically assume you are more intellectual, interesting, impressive.....I really don't know why.

This book club is better than most for a few unique reasons. First, we don't always read a book. I know this seems strange but a few times a year we go to plays or garden talks or BBQ's. Second, the members are primarily people I grew up with and their Mom's. So, basically a whole room of woman who have known you for almost your whole life. Third, the conversation at book club is always lively and entertaining. We tend to start with good intentions for a book review but inevitably wander onto some crazy tangent. For example, tonight we covered everything from wives of our founding fathers (the topic of our book), the building blocks of the democracy, cell phones, gym classes, book publishing, families, restaurants, kids, food, etc. You can count on a crazy, loud evening with several conversations happening simultaneously. In the end all the chaos results in a wonderful night of sharing our lives with good friends.

BOOKIES: DECEMBER 2010

Day 8: 30 Days of Gratitude - Kenny and Dolly Christmas Album

2010-12-08T23:14:00.001-07:00

Now that you have finished giggling at the "9 to 5" meets "The Santa Clause" pic above, let's get down to business. This is one of my favorite Christmas Albums of all time.

Each year as I decorate my Christmas tree, I dust this CD off and Kenny, Dolly and I take a walk down memory lane to Christmas past. My Mom always listened to this tape as she decorated our tree for Christmas. I can still remember her painstakingly adjusting each branch of our big flocked tree. She would then add delicate white doves, silk white roses and beautiful crystal icicles. The elegant tree would add a certain sparkle and glamour to our home.

My mom passed away many years ago but each Christmas season I spend the day decorating my Christmas tree with her. Thanks Kenny and Dolly for being the musical soundtrack to this special Christmas tradition.

Day 7: 30 Days of Gratitude - Wendy's Frosty

2010-12-07T21:44:00.001-07:00

Yep, today I am grateful for the Wendy's Frosty. I love it's creamy, sugary coolness...fantastic!!! The added feature of the Frosty is that you can drive up to any Wendy's, yell at a glowing menu, pull up to the first window, hand over a couple bucks, pull up to the second window and like magic they hand you one of these tasty treats.

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Day 6: 30 Days of Gratitude - Tobias

2010-12-06T22:12:00.004-07:00

...isn't he just beautiful? That is exactly what I thought the first time I saw Tobias. Today I am grateful for my wonderful canine companion.

Here is the story of how, almost six years ago, I found this sweet and special dog. It all starts, as many stories do, with a terrible tragedy. Our family dog, Bacchaus, was living with me when he was diagnosed with leukemia and we were forced have him put down. If you have ever had to do this, you will agree that is a very sad experience.

A day or two after this sad event, I came to the realization that much to my surprise....I am a dog person. Each time I arrived home from work, I felt like there was just something missing. So, I started the search for a new dog. I knew I did not want a purse dog, a show dog or a puppy (who really wants to potty train). On a suggestion from a friend, I started checking out the dogs on the humane society’s web site (I have always had a soft spot for strays and rejects) and that is where I found him. As I pulled up to my local humane society, I saw a tall, orange dog among the 20 or 30 in an outside kennel...I knew immeidiately that he was the one for me.

After spending 15 minutes with Toby, "Rational Jocelyn" (she is a real drag) kicked in with helpful advice like: "you should take some time to think about this", "what if this dog has weird issues", "a dog is a great deal of responsibility"...and so on and so forth. So I conceded to my rational self and took the next two hours to consider my decision. During this consideration period, I went directly to my local Petco to get my "maybe new dog" a collar, treats and a toy. :) I then returned, two hours later, with a shiny new collar ready to take my "definitely new dog" home. It is a decision I very grateful I made.

Over the years, I learned a lot about my new friend. Here a just a couple of my favorite "Tobias" facts:

1. Tobias was somewhere between 2 and 3 years old when we met

2. His proper name is Tobias but I generally call him "Toby" or "Bubba". My uncle Bruce, in protest to his name, exclusive refers to him as "Rufus".

3. Tobias and I made a deal, when he came to live with me, that he would never die. As a dog of high integrity, I fully expect him to honor it.

4. At 70+ pounds Toby is a surprisingly adept climber. He can scale my chain link fence with the ease and agility of a cat burglar.

5. Due to some painful childhood experiences living on the mean streets of Utah, Toby is perpetually hungry. He will eat until he actually explodes. He once ate half a large bag of dog food in one sitting.

6. Toby picked up some interesting survival skills during his "Pre-Jocelyn" life. He has a bit of a stealing problem whether it be treasures from our garbage, the neighbors garbage or items off the counter you can count on Toby to find something to augment his boring dog food diet.

7. He loves to ride in the car but prefers to sit shotgun.

8. He is an amazing listener. Whenever I am having one of those especially hard days, I will sit and talk it out with Toby. He always listens attentively, snuggled in close, looking at me with his big brown eyes that say "I understand and I love you". Some days that is the perfect remedy for what ails you.

Day 5: 30 Days of Gratitude - Jennifer

2010-12-05T20:18:00.001-07:00

On Day 5 of the Gratitude challenge, I am thankful for Jennifer Lindsay. This weekend Jenn was visiting Utah for a friend's wedding. Jenn was my final roommate from the Michigan years. I love this girl! She is a smaller, younger, better version of me. Rach (Bibe) and I have said for years that Jenn is a third part Jocelyn, a third part Rach and a third part Jenn. Before you start to think I am the most conceited person you have ever met....just months after my move from Michigan, Jenn went to her Ward's Halloween costume party dressed as "Jocelyn". If imitation is the most sincere form of flattery then I was overwhelmed and honored by her Halloween costume choice. As a quick side note this costume consisted of a white vneck t-shirt, jean skirt, sparkles, crazy make up, big hair, big earnings and a Diet Pepsi....is that what i look like?

She is soooo my kind of girl. Jenn is smart, fun, crazy, optimistic, fearless, resilient, courageous and beautiful. I have watched her grow from a freshman in college to a return missionary to a lovely woman. I admire the way Jenn has weathered some very challenging life situations and emerged a strong and empathic woman. I feel lucky to have Jenn as a part of my life and will miss her when she runs back to sunny SoCal.

Day 4: 30 Days of Gratitude - Christmas Lights

2010-12-04T22:35:00.004-07:00

As I drove up to my house this evening, I thought...today I am grateful for Christmas Lights. I love the sparkle, the reflection on the snow and the warm glow of my house welcoming me home.

When I drive past any house with fantastic Christmas lights, over the top displays or a simple string across the roof line, I can't help but stare in wide eyed wonder. My personal favorites are the large clear white lights. I am also partial to the homes decked out in all blue lights just like the home of my childhood.

P.S.
I have this secret desire to go all "Clark Griswold" crazy with this Christmas Light thing. Wouldn't it would be amazing to be the house covered from foundation to rooftop in lights? I can just see it now.....a full size sleigh with reindeer perched on the roof....an animatronic Santa waving from the chimney....a carousel of Elves dancing in the front yard...a choreographed light show set to the Bing Crosby Christmas album "Sleigh bells ring, are you listening. In the lane, snow is glistening. A beautiful sight, we're happy tonight. Walking in a winter wonderland......"

Day 3: 30 Days of Gratitude - Hats

2010-12-03T18:21:00.000-07:00

On Day 3 of 30 Days of Gratitude, I am thankful for HATS. Today I had one of those wake up late for work...it's casual Friday....ugh, I look like I have been hit by a train....I really don't want to wash and dry my hair days. So I dumped out my big bin of hats, picked out a nice black one and "Ta Da" we have an outfit...no hair dryer required.

Now, not all hats are created equal. You must find the style and color that suits you best. This reminds me of Daniel, Jessica's little boy telling me in regard to his Harry Potter wand "the boy does not choose the wand, the wand chooses boy". This is truly "the rule of hats".....you can love that classy fedora and covet that sassy cowboy but sometimes it is just not for you. For me the tried and true favorites are: the newsboy, baseball and a army looking style with the short bill (my brother calls this my Fidel Castro hat).

For today, I am thankful for great hats that may contribute to my lazy tendencies but sure make early mornings tolerable.

Day 2: 30 Days of Gratitude - Issac

2010-12-02T17:25:00.001-07:00

Today I am grateful for Issac for making me laugh out loud in the middle of my crazy work day. This is Issac. He is the son of my friends Nicole and David. Issac is one of the most beautiful, crazy and loving people in the world. So this is how Issac had me laughing out loud today.

First, lets start with a little context. A few days ago I spent the day with Nicole, Kathy, Jessica, Kim and Colleen decorating a tree for the festival of trees (more to come on this in a future post). When we had finally completed the monstrous task we all took various pics of the tree and our group. Upon looking at my pictures (taken with the trusty I-Phone) I noticed that a few pictures were blurry. I remembered that Nicole had been taking pictures with her fancy camera and so I sent her a text message asking for email copies.

Shown below is our text conversation:

Jocelyn: Nic, Will you please email me your pics from the festival of trees? Mine are kind of blurry. Thanks Joc

Nic: Do you want to come and get some joc

Jocelyn: Sure would that be easier

Nic: Yes

Jocelyn: Ok I am at institute. How about tomorrow evening?

Nic: Ok

Jocelyn: Thanks

Nic: ok @ 4:30

Jocelyn: I can't be home that early. Maybe the weekend would be better.

Nic: ok

At the end of the strange text conversation exchange I was left thinking....does Nicole not know about emailing.....maybe she is one of those "I don't like to share my pictures people"....I am pretty sure she knows I work past 4:30....

Fast forward to today, I am in a meeting at work and see a missed call and voicemail from Nicole. Now I am thinking....this just keeps getting more and more strange. After finishing my meeting, I listen to the voice mail in which Nicole explains that she just realized that Issac had been text messaging me last night. She went on to say that she would of course be able to email pictures to me (calming my fears that Nicole not aware of this new thing called email). The best part is that Issac had asked me to come by to pick up pictures because he wanted to see me. How great is that? I mean when was the last time someone went to so much effort to make sure they could see you. I was amused, touched, flattered and overwhelmed with love. Thanks Issac for brightening my day today.

Day 1: 30 Days of Gratitude Let's Get Started

2010-12-01T23:53:00.001-07:00

Today I am starting a new challenge....I don't know about you but I love the Holiday Season....everything from Halloween to New Year's rocks! However, there is something very special about the time leading up to Christmas. We spend more time focused on family and close friends (even if that means shopping for the perfect gift in the middle of the night aka Black Friday). We are reminded of those less fortunate and we are given many opportunities to serve. We shift our focus from ourselves and our crazy lives to the birth of our Savior, Jesus Christ. With all the joy and celebration in the air, I feel myself reflecting on my blessed life. As a result, I have chosen to document one thing each day for which I am truly grateful. Lest you believe this will be 30 days of soul enriching life insights, let me remind you....it is still me writing this blog.

So let it begin............

On Day 1 the gratitude challenge, I am thankful for wonderfully creative food. Today I had the opportunity to enjoy dinner at Em's restaurant in Downtown Salt Lake City with my good friend Dani. This is one one of those fabulous, you kind of need to know it's there, kind of restaurants. The ambiance was perfect...set in a old brick building with an open layout, fabulous artwork and attentive service. Dani and I both started with the roasted pepper soup which was spicy with a hint of the comfort offered in your favorite tomato. I followed with an entree of butternut squash ravioli finished with a rich brown butter sauce and crispy basil leaves. The crunchy kick of the basil paired with the creamy warmth of the ravioli and sauce was lovely. We both ended the meal with Em's signature chocolate jabanero ice cream. I am a self proclaimed ice cream addict so this was right up my alley. The ice cream was rich and creamy with a dense chocolate flavor followed by a peppery punch. I can't help but fall in love with a meal that offers a creative surprise with every course.

Summer Projects

2010-11-09T20:51:00.001-07:00

PROJECT#1: Little Girl Dress

Found this great, easy pattern for fun summer dresses. My good friend Francine's little girl Ms. E (also known as mini Jocelyn. This girl rocks!) is our professional model. Isn't she FABULOUS !!!!

PROJECT#2: American Girl Doll Bed

Ok, this is actually a Jenn Cook project but I offered my consulting services anyway.

We started early in the morning with a Home Depot trip and a dream of a Tufted Headboard Platform beds for some very special dolls. Jen and I built the bed frames, upholstered the bed and tufted the headboard. All this and only one small staple gun incident ending in Cook getting a all new tetanus shot (lucky girl). Cook's Mom created the amazing bedding and TaDa a beautiful baby doll bed. I just love this project!!!!

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South Davis Thanksgiving Day 10k, 5k, 1k | Bountiful, Utah 84010 | Thursday, November 25, 2010 @ 9:00 AM

2010-11-03T11:36:00.000-06:00

I just signed up for my first running race post foot injury. I would love some company if anyone is interested in a morning run on Thanksgiving.

http://www.active.com/page/event_details.htm?event_id=1838743

Contrast....

2010-10-29T01:18:00.001-06:00

Opposition or juxtaposition of different forms, lines, or colors in a work of art to intensify each element's properties and produce a more dynamic result

You know when you get an idea in your head and suddenly it seems as if the world around you is organizing itself to illustrate this point? Well, that is what the idea of contrast has been for me this week.

Over the past few years, I have developed a love of contrast in my personal style, art, home decor and landscaping. I have seen how contrasting color, texture, scale and placement can make the ordinary into the extraordinary. It is amazing to me how the addition of a small contrasting element can completely change your perception.

I now understand that contrast in all of life's elements has worked to provide me a richer and more dynamic life experience. The various challenges of my life have provided a deepening of understanding and intense gratitude for life's joys. The failure and disappointment provide needed context for the success and optimism. I am thankful for those in my life who challenge my paradigms, encourage me to take risks and nudge me outside my comfort zone. It seems that these experiences are often the needed element to transform the ordinary life into the extraordinary.

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Lady Jos Jos ....

2010-10-25T22:35:00.001-06:00

Let the crazy Halloween Madness begin. I fell in love (a good romance) with this fabby wig. I HEART IT !!!

What a difference the drapes make....

2010-10-11T21:50:00.000-06:00

I have been obsessing about the curtains in my living room for several months now. Something about this room just never quite gelled for me. Finally, a few weeks ago, I realized what the problem has been .....this room is far to adult and way to proper to be a true reflection of me. Sure it was fun for awhile, but in the end I just required a bit more crazy and a lot more pizazz. After some intense internet surfing, I went with a new bold curtain from Cost Plus World Market. If you have never been to Cost Plus you really need to give it a try. The place is a treasure trove of wonderful decor and fabulous imported food items. All of my favorite things in one easy location. Now back to the decor changes. What do you think of the changes. Also, what kind of pillows should I make to go with this. Any idea for my dinning room chair cushion upholstery (see prior post for dinning room chairs)?

Welcome to the latest project...

2010-10-04T23:52:00.001-06:00

Found these great late 1800's chairs in an antique store this weekend. I can hardly wait to get started on this project. :)

- Posted from my iPhone

Mint.com....

2010-09-30T22:58:00.000-06:00

I have been using Mint.com for about a year now and I absolutely love it. When it comes to personal finance tracking tools, I am more than a little bit judgmental. I find most software applications to be cumbersome and confusing. This is where Mint.com rocks the world. Basically, once you take the time to set up your accounts (which is super simple) you are ready to go. The website automatically updates all you account information when you log in giving a complete view of you personal finances. And my most favorite thing of all is the there is an IPhone App that allows me to access this information at anytime from my phone. I give this website a resounding five stars *****. Give it a try you will love it.

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Power Outage...

2010-08-28T19:18:00.001-06:00

Yes, we are without power at my house today. It is a beautiful and extremely windy afternoon....my guess is that the wind might be the issue. Anyway, when you have no power what do you do? Tobias and I decided to read a book and lounge on the porch swing. Maybe the power should go out more often.

- Posted from my iPhone

Oh no...she's awake

2010-08-07T00:17:00.001-06:00

"Live your life in such a way that when your feet hit the floor in the morning, Satan shudders and says, Oh, NO! She's awake!"

I love the visual of a red horned Satan shuddering in the corner at the prospect of my morning consciousness. :)

- Posted from my iPhone

Great Restaurant in SLC...

2010-07-21T01:16:00.004-06:00

www.evaslc.com

I met my good friend Dani downtown this evening to catch up over dinner. The company was great, the conversation was cathartic and the food was amazing!

Eva is at 317 S. Main in Salt Lake City. As we were seated on the back porch, I was transported to a cafe in southern Spain. Our server was friendly and recommended some fabulous items. Everything comes on small plates to be shared. (Don't you just love meals that are supposed to be shared.) My favorites were the tender succulent ribs, a mediterranean Mac and Cheese that is to die for and the banana ice cream cake that screams delight.

If you are in the area, I highly recommend Eva.

- Posted from my iPhone

Practical Magic...

2010-07-20T00:14:00.005-06:00

I was flipping through the channels this past weekend, I stumbled upon the movie Practical Magic. I love this movie! It has all the components of a Jocelyn favorite:

1- A strong willed yet misunderstood Heroine.

2- A little Romance

3- A problem to be solved

4- A Bit of Magic ( not a requirement for all movies but it helps)

Plus some great quotes like this one:

"My darling girl, when are you going to understand that being normal is not neccessarily a virtue? It rather denotes a lack of courage."

Who doesn't need to be reminded on occasion that she embodies a unique set of gifts, talents, experiences and physical traits that make her special?

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Billy Idol...

2010-07-18T23:40:00.000-06:00

My brother gave his little dog a haircut today. Now we have a Yorkie with a Mohawk. I think he looks like a dog version of Billy Idol. Can't you just hear him breaking into a terrier version of "Rebel Yell".....more, more, more....

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Jocelyn and the No Good, Terrible, Very Bad Day...

2010-07-14T22:34:00.097-06:00

Do you ever have one of those days....Well, I had one today that completely reminded me of this childrens book:

I woke up this morning 2 hours late.   I speedily put the curlers in my hair and started working on my makeup.   For no apparent reason, my eyeliner started to run. I remove the curlers to find a half curled result that was more homeless than hot. Then while brushing my teeth, I spill tooth past on my shirt and have to change the whole outfit. I could just tell it was going to be a No Good, Terrible Very Bad Day.

I finally get to work and things are starting to look up.   We have a golf outing scheduled for the afternoon at Hobblecreek and I just have 3 reports to complete before I go. Plenty of time.....this is going to be a great day. First report: Done. Second Report: Done.   Third Report: All Hell Breaks Loose.   My computer begins spontaneously shutting down. The data I am pulling from the system looks fishy.  Every time I try to make progress another strange computer issue crops up.   My whole group leaves for the golf outing....I am still trying to make this blasted report work.   Now I am missing my tee time....Crap!   This is turning into a No Good, Terrible, Very Bad Day.

I finally finish and send the report (5 hours late)......Crap!....It is too big to send via email. Initiate frantic search to flash drive!   Flash drive in hand, I run to the office of my colleague who is waiting for the report. In the final 20 yards of my sprint, my adorable black platform sandal breaks.   What a No Good, Terrible, Very Bad Day this is.

I deliver the flash drive and start looking for a pin to hold together by failed footwear.  One of the assistants give me a Franklin Covey 7 Year commemorative pin. THANK YOU! I fix the shoe and rush to the car in an attempt to make the dinner portion of the Golf Outing that is 60 miles away. As I wander through Springville, already late for dinner, I realize I am completely lost.   When will this No Good, Terrible, Very Bad Day end?

A stop at the local gas station sets me on the right path.  After a meandering trip through Hobblecreek Canyon, I finally arrive at the dinner.   All my colleagues are riding 4 wheelers up the canyon...so jump on for a ride.   Less than 1 mile up the canyon my 4 wheeler dies and I can not restart it. I start the journey down the dirt road in a pair of platform sandals held together by a commemorative pin.  I should move to Costa Rica and live on the beach...you wouldn't even need shoes in Costa Rica.... Can we just say No Good, Terrible, Very Bad Day?

One my my colleagues takes pity and rescues me half way through my hike.   We all enjoy a great dinner and everyone packs up to return home.   I begin walking to my car but manage to twist my ankle on the uneven ground before stepping in to drivers seat. I should be surfing in Costa Rica right now.   This is the most No Good, Terrible, Very Bad Day.

A call from my friend Jessica, also having a bad day, results in an inspired plan for some speedy retail therapy at the Gateway mall.   We both find the most amazing magic T-shirt that truly makes all your worries go away.   We then return to Jessica's house where we have one of those hours long talks that only best friends can have. This may have been a No Good, Terrible, Very Bad Day but thanks to a magic T-shirt and wonderful friends this has turned into a Very Good Day.

P.S.
I still think I should move to Costa Rica though. :)

Let There Be Light....

2010-07-13T23:25:00.004-06:00

This is how it went..I was looking at the small silver lamp on my nightstand and thinking
"Why does that lamp look so dwarfed next to that awesome headboard. Hmmm, that is weird.....I have never noticed that before"

2 hours of obsessive personality later...
"Wow, that lamp is just ridiculous.....that will not work. Why are there not two lamps....there are two nightstands.....How have I not noticed this design infraction before?"

30 minutes of Internet surfing later...
"Wouldn't tall lamps with glass bases look amazing in my room. They will need to be extremely tall ....Blasted Internet.....I can't find them anywhere"

Brief flashback to HGTV episode. (Insert Wayne's World Flashback Music Here).

"Design star shows how you can make a lamp out of any bottle/container plus a simple lamp kit"

Return to Reality inside a Pier One Store where you have found the two ridiculously tall gorgeous glass candle holders.

"Brief conversation (insert Peir One Employee is this chick crazy look) with everyone in Pier One regarding the future life of this candle stick holder as a lamp. "

Flash forward.....purchase amazing glass specific drill bit, modify two ball canning jar lids and add tons of liquid nails adhesive. Top the whole project off with 2 lamp shades plus several hours of creative construction and what do you get? Two fabulous and perfectly proportioned glass base lamps.

Tagged: Random Fact Q&A

2010-07-09T13:40:00.003-06:00

My friend Clinton from work tagged me on his blog requesting I answer the following Jocelyn random facts questions so here we go:

1. What is your staple meal
Ok, I interpret this as what is your lazy meal.....I have a couple:

Peanut Butter and Grape Jelly on Wheat Bread with a giant Glass of Skim Milk
Pancakes and Scrambled Eggs
Omelets (I love this because you can just start dumping veggies, cheese and meat in and it always comes out great.

2. What do you want to be when you grow-up?
A Superhero....What? That is my serious answer....I never claimed to be a mature grownup.

3. What book are you reading at the moment? (If any)
I am always reading several books at once so here is the stack on the nightstand now:

Into Thin Air (this is for my work book club)
The Host (just a few more pages)
Hans Christian Anderson Fairy tales (these are quite gruesome and disturbing)
I am the Messanger (from the author of "The Book Thief" which I loved)
The Miracle of Forgiveness (got to have a little religion right)

4. How do you relax?
This depends on the day but a few of my favorites are:

Working on a project for my house
Working in the yard
Sewing something usually clothes
Making jewelry....this is a new one
Watching a great movie. Of course, I think all movies are great. ;)
Boating....boating.....BOATING!!!
Going somewhere adventurous/exotic on vacation

As you can see I am not a great sitter.....the whole forced relaxation, sit still and be quiet thing does not work for me.

5. What is your guiltiest pleasure?
ICE CREAM...in any form. I love it. I would eat ice cream everyday and at every meal if I thought I could justify it. I have almost convinced myself that my morning protein shake could benefit from a scoop of the good stuff.

6. What time is bedtime and getting up time?
Like there is a schedule......to bed between 11 and 1 and wake up between 5:30 and 7.

7. How long do you spend reading blogs per day?
Probably about 15 minutes. My I-Phone has this great app that consolidates all the blogs I follow and shows me the updates. I actually can't remember the last time I looked at blogs from my computer.

Jocelyn as a Blonde?

2010-05-26T16:44:00.009-06:00

Ok, I am getting a bit weird about this hair color choice. What can I say...I am a bit obsessive. I found the best website that allows you to try on new hairstyles. Go to In Style http://www.instyle.com/instyle/makeover and give it a try. Check out what I would look look like as a true blonde. How about beachy waves and light brown hair? Even something really crazy like shocking red.

Hairstylist or Magician......

2010-05-24T22:44:00.000-06:00

I truly believe that a close, personal relationship with an excellent hairstylist is one of the keys to happiness. This may seem incredibly shallow but think about it....your hair is the one accessory you always wear.

If you have ever had a horrible haircut or color, you know how it makes you feel yucky every time you get ready. No hat, bobby pin, headband, ponytail, braid, color correcting shampoo, special hair gel or tedious hair styling can correct a poorly executed coif.

In contrast, a master of the hair arts will cast his special brand of magic to convince your hair to achieve it's greatest potential. How do you find one of these gifted casters of hair magic? Is there a special website, directory, club membership, matching service you can enlist in your search? No, just like dating this is a process of trial and error. And just like dating, your hair will suffer at the hand of many a second rate hack before you find your personal hair wizard.

I have been lucky enough to know several masters of the craft. Luis, who had a special way of making you feel like the most beautiful women in the world every time you stepped through the door. Jimmy, who taught me that I could have my hair done in Utah without it resulting in skunk-like hair color ratted high to heaven. Phillip, who saved my over-processed and hacked hair while instilling a vision of flowing "Shampoo Commercial" worthy locks. To these masters of the craft.....I salute you!

In just one week, I will be visiting my personal hair wizard after far too long an absence. Now comes the question.....what hair color should we try on for summer. Here are a few of my recent favorites. What's your vote?

#1: Lyndsay Price's Dark Chocolate

#2: Brook Shields Chestnut Brown with subtle golden highlights

#3: Alisa Milano's Medium Golden Brown

#4: Jennifer Aniston's Sunkissed Light Brown/Dark Blonde

Cannellini Chard Soup...

2010-04-27T18:19:00.003-06:00

Here is a little insight in the the Jocelyn Meal Planning Method.

Step 1: Get random ingredient in produce co-op basket.

Step 2: Surf Internet for recipe containing said random ingredient.

Step 3: Try new recipe and hope for the best.

As I was staring at a bundle of Chard and surfing the Internet, I happened upon a wonderful find for Cannellini Chard Soup on http://www.healthytastychow.com/ . This recipe is so easy to make and very tasty.

Ingredients:

2 whole carrots
2 stalks celery (optional, I didn't have any and it was fine without)
1-2 shallots (used yellow onion because it was also in the produce basket)
2 garlic cloves (this is my add to the recipe....I think everything is better with garlic)
1 bunch swiss or rainbow chard
1 14.28 oz can diced tomatoes
2 15 oz cans cannelloni beans, drained
1 bunch fresh basil (about 1/3-1/2 cup chopped) or 1/2 TB dry
1 bunch fresh parsley (ditto)
8 cups water + chicken and vegetable bullion (I just used boxed chicken broth from the pantry)
salt and pepper to taste
freshly grated parm
evoo to drizzle on top

Method:

In a soup pot, pre-heat the pot on medium-high and add some olive oil
Chop up carrots, celery, and shallots (onion) – add to pot, stir and cook about five minutes or until some of the vegetables begin to brown slightly then add crushed garlic cloves and cook about 1 more minute.
Add the water and the bullion, allow to boil until carrots start to become tender
Add chard, tomatoes and herbs – cook on low until carrots are completely tender
Add cannelloni beans and some freshly grated pepper and serve topped with some freshly grated parm and olive oil

WHAT IS YOUR DREAM CAR...

2010-04-10T19:37:00.001-06:00

Ok....I don't exactly have one.....I have two.....

The first is the Aston Martin V12 Vanquish. This car screams mystery, intrigue and adventure! My understanding is when you step into the car you can actually hear your favorite James Bond theme in the background. The Vanquish is powered by a 460-horsepower 6.0-liter V12 engine with a 6-speed gearbox with automated clutch (the S upped the ante to 520 ponies). Its "hand-tailored" aluminum body panels were precision-fit over a monocoque structure that combines aluminum extrusions and a carbon-fiber transmission tunnel.

The second would be the Alfa Romeo 8C Competizione. This is just Sexy! I actually think you get a beautiful italian co-pilot when you purchase this gem. This fabled Italian automaker will celebrate its 100th anniversary in June, and that century is rich with racing exploits and beautiful machines. Its gorgeous lines are inspired by Alfa racers from the '30s and '40s, and it is named after the 8C racer that won the 24 Hours of Le Mans four straight years (from 1931 to 1934). Only 500 were produced and quickly sold for more than $225,000 each. The 8C coupe has a carbon-fiber body and is powered by a 4.7-liter 450-horsepower V8 engine with a 6-speed automatic gearbox.

Just thought I would throw out a couple of good ideas for those who are still looking for a "Jocelyn's Birth Month" gift.....

Inspirational Life Work of Stone Kyambadde...

2010-04-06T22:27:00.001-06:00

It seems like everywhere I turn these days I am given the unique opportunity to meet the most amazing people. Today, during big corporate meeting at work, we were going through the normal stuff of business meetings....how are we doing....do we all understand the goals of the company....where are we going....etc.

Then just as we were wrapping up our head of HR ventured into a lesson in our curriculum. One of the concepts taught in Franklin Covey's 7 Habits course is that of a "transition figure". A transition figure is an individual who through his/her life and example transforms his/her environment or community. After a brief concept introduction, we watched the film used in our 7 Habits course to illustrate this principle. Below is the story of the Life Work of Stone Kyambadde....

Following the video.....Stone and his wife Tabitha stepped into the room. The entire crowd broke into a spontaneous standing ovation. We were then lucky enough to listen to Stone as he told us more about the work he is doing with these young men in Uganda. I was on the verge of tears most of the time. Stone's example of courage, love, forgiveness and strength was so inspiring.

In a quote from Stephen R. Covey he states "Stone was a successful professional football player until somebody in a match purposely ‘blew out’ his knee. He could have become vindictive or revengeful. He could have wallowed in self-pity or lived in his celebrity for the rest of his life. Instead he chose his response and devoted his life to inspire and encourage ‘youth at risk’ on the streets of Kampala, Uganda. With unrelenting passion he has reached out to the young men in his country so, that they, too, can learn to govern their own lives, gain a vision of becoming professional soccer players, then becoming economically self-reliant, responsible adults, fathers and contributing citizens”. - Dr Stephen Covey

What an amazing life and amazing contribution Stone is making to our world by seeing a need and responding. If you were as impressed as I was and would like to help Stones cause you can contribute to his foundation by sending a check made payable to: International Foundation

The address is:
International Foundation
Attn: Lora Zuk
C/o Watkins, Meegan, Drury and Co.
7700 Wisconsin Avenue, Suite 500
Bethesda, MD. 20814

Send a note with the check stating it is for account 508-002 – Grants to Cornerstone Development, Stone’s Foundation. You should also send a quick email to Stone letting him know what you have donated and what you would like it to go towards. Stone’s email is kyamstone@yahoo.com.

This is a US registered non-profit that passes 100% of the donation on to the foundation. You will receive a tax-deductible receipt.

Contact Information for the Foundation is:
lora.zuk@watkinsmeegan.com
301-664-8174
301-656-9115 fax

You Know You Are Living In 2010 When...

2010-04-01T15:59:00.000-06:00

1. You accidentally enter your password on the microwave..
2. You haven't played solitaire with real cards in years.
3. You have a list of 15 phone numbers to reach your family of 3.
4. You e-mail the person who works at the desk next to you...
5. Your reason for not staying in touch with friends and family is that they don't have e-mail addresses .
6. You pull up in your own driveway and use your cell phone to see if anyone is home to help you carry in the groceries.
7. Every commercial on television has a web site at the bottom of the screen.
8. Leaving the house without your cell phone, which you didn't have the first 20 or 30 (or 60) years of your life, is now a cause for panic and you turn around to go and get it.
10. You get up in the morning and go on line before getting your coffee or breakfast.
11. You start tilting your head sideways to smile. : )
12.. You're reading this and nodding and laughing.

Sassy Shoes...

2010-03-31T10:34:00.003-06:00

I LOVE SHOES!!!!!! Really any shoes will do...athletic, flats, flip flops, even hiking boots....but what really get me going is a pair of sassy high heel shoes.

So you may ask, what would cause a sassy girl like me to abandon her favorites....well I would have to answer with a tragic and cruel twist of fate....

"....our story begins on a pristine lake outside Traverse City, Michigan a weekend of celebration and reunion. The Summer Ski Club (SSC) has gathered from far and wide to celebrate the wedding of Rita and Jim. It is amid this celebration that our tragic tale begins. As the SSC watches from the shiny new Mastercraft, our Rider cuts the wakeboard deep to the right. A quick look left and our Rider charges toward the giant wall of water. The board lifts and for a moment we are flying. Suddenly, the euphoria of flights gives way to the reality of landing.....something is wrong. The board crashes back to the water landing on a sliver of its front edge. The impact of the landing sends a surge of twisting force through our Rider’s foot. A pull.....a tear....a rip....a stream of tears....our rider is severely injured. Now begins a long an arduous journey of recovery including massive swelling, countless x-rays, a 2 month confinement in an orthopedic boot and a foray into the land of sensible footwear."

Seven months later, our Rider returns triumphant, humbled, mostly healed. Now what is the reward for this heroine’s brave journey.....a sassy pair of fuchsia high heels of course.

My absence from the land of tall shoes made be appreciate a few things:
1. HEIGHT: The world just looks better from 3 inches higher.
2. STYLE: Even the most basic ensemble is made special by a pair of sassy shoes.
3. LEGS: All legs look elongated, toned and sexy in high heels….this is a fashion truth.
4. SHOPPING: you know what I mean, when you walk into the shoe store/department and a gorgeous pair of high heels calls out to you…you are swept away in a dream sequence of you running through the streets of Paris in a sassy pair of stilettos….when did a loafer ever call out to you.

My Orange Duffle Bag....

2010-03-26T18:06:00.001-06:00

Sam Bracken is a co-worker and friend of mine. The video below is just a glimpse of his amazing, life changing story. What I love about Sam's story is his ability to empower each of us to change our lives, our situations even our circumstances and build the lives we want. Sam is the most amazing example of taking all the life throws at you and making something great from it.

If you love the video, you can find more on Sam including his autobiographical and inspirational book "My Orange Duffle Bag" at http://www.sambracken.com/.

"2010: Be The Best Jocelyn" campain update

2010-03-26T17:49:00.001-06:00

Ok.....True Confessions time.....

The "2010: Be The Best Jocelyn" campain hit a bit of a snag in in early February followed by a little bump in mid February leading to a total meltdown by early March. As with so many brilliant ideas, sometimes day to day life gets in the way of great change. So, as I told the trainer last week, we are starting fresh....wiping the slate clean and relaunching the

"2010: Be The Best Jocelyn" campain.

This is the part where the confetti falls from the ceiling, Van Halen blasts "Dreams" from the speakers and the entire crowd breaks into a spontaneous cheer of "A Hail Princess Jocelyn........

When you have finished your Princess Jocelyn cheer.....ok, just one more round.....really this is getting embarassing....no stop....ok, one more time. :)

I would love your feedback on what keeps you motiviated towards your goals whether they are personal, physcial, professional, etc? How do you stay on track? What do you do to prevent the day to day of life from distracting you from accomplishing your greater goals?

Horoscopes...

2010-02-01T22:32:00.001-07:00

Ok, I don't really put much stock in my daily horoscope but today's glance into the future was right on target.

Aries: Obstacles are really gifts, showing you that you can do things smarter and healthier.

This one is totally on target for the "What Would Jocelyn Do" 2010 plan to excellence. So obstacles (chocolate, sleep, FC, system changes, home projects, reports, accounting closes, aches, injuries) beware, we are doing it better this year!

- Posted from my iPhone

Healthy Choices...

2010-01-13T21:39:00.000-07:00

Once again the makers of IPhone apps have found a way to make my life better with the LiveStrong App. I have tried several of these calorie and exercise tracking apps and the LiveStrong version is by far the best. Their food database is amazing. You can really find the nutritional value of anything....which so essential when you are working toward a weight loss goal. Not only can you track but the software will tell you how many calories you need to eat to achieve your goal. Your calories even adjust based on your activity level and daily workouts. On top of all these features, you can also track your weight daily on a graph. I LOVE GRAPHS! Finally, all the information syncs with the LiveStrong website so you can enter data in either place. Love it! Thank you LiveStrong you have become a essential part of the "2010: Be The Best Jocelyn" campain.

- Posted from my iPhone

Favorite New Years Treat...

2010-01-04T08:00:00.002-07:00

Yes....like everyone else in the world, I have started 2010 with a vow to be a healthier individual. This vow does not however include breaking up with chocolate completly...... we are just going to be a little less serious...I mean really things were moving too fast.

I have found the perfect chocolate rebound-relationship ....The fun size 3 Musketeers in Mint. This fella is an amazing combination of Dark Chocolate and Mint that will definetly get you past those afternoon sugar cravings. Even better each one is only 60 calories and so much fun.

Happy Holidays....

2009-12-21T11:01:00.002-07:00

Merry Christams and Happy New Year.

From Jocelyn and Tobias

The picture above was the winner from our Christmas Card Photo Shoot. I have to share some of the others though......Toby gets completly hyper every time and I just cant help but laugh at him.

Let It Snow....

2009-12-08T09:02:00.002-07:00

Winter has finally decended upon Utah. Check out the view of my house this morning. I took this picture as I was pulling out of the driveway. I love the look of all the beautiful fluffy white snow. We have waited a long time but it looks like it could be a white Christmas this year.

P.S.
My commute took 1 hour this morning....now that may not seem very long until you factor in that I live 13.7 miles from work (door to door).

Tis The Season....

2009-11-30T20:58:00.003-07:00

Merry Christmas decorating. I love putting out all the Christmas decor. I light the candles, pop in the Kenny and Dolly Christmas Album and let the magic of the season envelope my home. Then, I just sit and marinate in the familiar smells and sights of christmas past. I am reminded of time spent watching my Mom painstakingly decorate our flocked white tree with tiny doves and crystal ornaments. Or my Dad's creative tree decorating....from trees fully decorated siting on the deck outside our picture window to a tree decorated with only red metallic balls lit from above by a red spotlight. Something about this ritual of decorating the tree warms my heart with joy and warm memories.

P.S.
If you have never heard Kenny and Dolly belt out Christmas classics, I strongly suggest getting yourself a copy today. :)

-- Post From Jocelyn's iPhone

Shopping the Classifieds

2009-11-08T22:43:00.000-07:00

I have recently found KSL.com classified ads online in Utah. Of course, I am totally hooked. I have dabbled a bit in EBAY and other sites in the past but the beauty of local classifieds is that you can actually go see the items. Anyway, I have been looking for new dinning room chairs and happened upon these antiques from the early 1900's.

What do you think? I may have to go visit this set tomorrow.
-- Post From Jocelyn's iPhone

GREASE is the....

2009-11-02T21:01:00.013-07:00

Grease is the word

It's got groove

It's got meaning

Grease is the time, is the place is the motion

Grease is the way we are feeling !

I am totally a Grease fan. Over they years, I have wanted to be Sandra Dee (innocent in a poodle skirt), Frenchy (pink hair and all), Sandy (sexy in leather pants and red platforms) and of course Rizzo. Rizzo, the unconventional leader of the Pink Ladies. How can you not just love this lady? Ok...she has fairly loose moral values and is a bit raunchy at times but you have to love that she also oozes individuality, confidence and resourcefulness.

Thus, we come to my yearly dilemma of what to be for Halloween. For some reason I really struggled this year to find to costume that would inspire my Halloween spirit. The whole decision was complicated by the possibility of needing to build a costume around the ugly walking boot I had been wearing for 6+ weeks do to a little wake boarding mishap (luckily the boot was off by Halloween). I identified so many possibilities including:

1/ Dorthy from the Wizard of Oz. Unfortunately, this costume's success hinged on Brent's Dog being Toto...after several practices it became evident he did not have the attention span for the roll.

2/ Princess Leia Costume from Star Wars Episode IV. Now this seemed like a really winner. However, after looking more closely at the costume, she is basically wearing a giant turtleneck sheet with Cinnamon bun hair. I am sorry but that is just not attractive.

3/ Sleeping Beauty. She is my favorite Disney Princess but I only like the Blue Sleeping Beauty Dress...do you have any idea how hard this is to find......believe me I have tried.

After all this costume indecision, it finally came to me.....Rizzo from Grease. She doesn't need an animal accessory, her costume in no way resembles bedding and pink/black is a classic color combo. PERFECT!

Take one crazy black dress, add a official pink ladies jacket, sunglasses and a black wig and what do you get. RIZZO! It was such a fun costume to wear. First, only people over 30 have any clue what you are. Second, due to the black wig, people I work with every day did a double take. Finally, when you are Rizzo the whole world expects you to be pretty sassy all the time.....a real stretch for me.

P.S.

A note on the black wig....every time I looked in the mirror, I would see a combo of my mother and aunt staring back at me. I guess it really is true, we do all become our mothers. :)

What's For Dinner...

2009-10-27T22:54:00.000-06:00

What should we have for dinner tonight? This pesky little question seems to relentlessly plague my evening commute. Please watch while I illustrate a typical conversation between me, myself and I.

"You know what, (insert homemade meal here) would be so good for dinner.....wait, we would need to get ( random ingredient) from the store.....I don't want to go to the store today.....how about (another fabulous homemade creation)......ok, we will need (some kind of protein) which I have in the freezer......oh no, that will not work, it will take forever to thaw.....ok, what should we have for dinner......(please start at the beggining and repeat until you are completly crazed)."

Like so many days before, I completed the cycle of " What To Have For Dinner" several times before finally deciding to just bite the bullett and go to the store.

I guess, if I am at the store, I should just get all my shopping done right? I open the grocery list on my IPhone and start filling the cart:

Yogart (check), penne pasta (check), eggs (check), frozen pizza (not on the list but a solution for the dinner problem - check), misc random other items (check, check, check), then I finally get to the last item....boyfriend. What? I didn't put that there....how did that.....wait...who had my phone last night....ooooohhhh...I remember.....TODD! I begin laughing out loud in the frozen food section. I proceed to check the rest of the store for this item but alas it appears that Winagers does not carry boyfriends. For the best really, I am sure if they did carry boyfriends they would be a lot like their produce...squishy and past it's prime. :)

In summary, the evening produced the following:
1/ Dinner: frozen pizza (check)
2/ Chores: grocery shopping (check, with the exception of the elusive boyfriend ingredient)
3/ Laugh: Outloud Full Belly Laugh next to the frozen dinners (check)

-- Post From Jocelyn's iPhone

Pink Ladies...

2009-10-25T19:07:00.004-06:00

Yes....it 's like Grease Lighting..........Go Grease Lighting........

On Day 1 of my adventure to Southern California, Jenn and I visited Disney. We had a great time riding the new and old rides, getting our pictures taken with Minnie Mouse and soaking in the Disney spirit. My favorite part of the day was the Trick-or-Treating at California Adventure. Jenn and I dressed as Pink Ladies. We then went booth to booth collecting candy and yes, a few costume compliments. For example, there is a place in California Adventure where you could play the carnival games for candy. As we stepped away from one of these games, a gentleman stopped and asked if he could have a picture of Jenn and I. We, of course, did our best pink ladies poses for the camera. For those out there who are not famous, it is best to allow the fans their pictures and autographs.....yet another burden of celebrity life. :)

Canned Food Collage...

2009-10-24T17:46:00.001-06:00

Don't you just love a well stocked, organized pantry. I totally do!!! It seems that each time I go to the grocery store, I am sucked into buying a case of something. I could try to say that this is my attempt at food storage but really I just like the way all the cans look lined up in the pantry. It is a little like having a grocery store in your house. So pretty :)
-- Post From Jocelyn's iPhone

A helping hand...

2009-10-23T21:56:00.001-06:00

Today I had the opportunity to really help someone. I serve on the board of a non for profit organization with a charter to help individuals who have suddenly been placed by health or circumstance in a extreme situation.

We were able to help a family facing a challenging situation by providing some financial assistance. The grace, humility and gratitude of the recipent brought me to tears. I feel so lucky to have the opportunity to help another as he or she works through the challenges of life.

Following this experience, I was left with the feeling that I should find other ways to help. What? I'm not sure yet. I do know that the joy I feel when helping someone to live a better life is worth pursuing.

-- Post From Jocelyn's iPhone

Organizing the Addiction

2009-10-21T23:13:00.001-06:00

True confessions time...I am a office supplies addict. What? What are you snickering about? I can't help it, I love organizational trinkets. I walk the rows of the office depot looking for new and exciting treasures.

Lest you think me fast and trashy, not just any office supply turns this girl on. No...it has to be a specific kind of blue pen, the perfect alligator clip, a new 3 ring binder or neon pocketed binder tabs. I know can you beleive it NEON POCKETED BINDER TABS....truly a vision in plastic. Combine this extraordinary find with a plethora of P-Touch labels and a shiny new binder (with easy open latch) and you get the flagship piece in Jocelyn's Fall 2009 "Organize My Life" line.

Critics Rave

"The colors are bold and fresh with a hint of playfulness" - Mr. Yellow Crayon

"Extrodinary" - Organizer Magazine

"We have not seen order like this since the Dewey decimal system" - The Supreme Council for Classification, Organization and Segmentation

-- Post From Jocelyn's iPhone

We Love Gatorade...

2009-10-20T21:43:00.001-06:00

We should all buy stock in Gatorade. Based on my very scientific sample of two flu ridden victims, Gatorade is the best and tastiest beverage to fight dehydration. It is good to see that something of value has been produced by Florida's football program. GO GATORADE!!!

The Flu....

2009-10-19T16:29:00.003-06:00

Alright....I am totally in a fight with my immune system. In the last month plus I have had several nasty colds and now the flu.....Yes, the flu. By Sunday morning it was comfirmed....Yes, I have a new illness not just the remants of the previous illness. How was this confirmed you ask? With a full throttle vomit fest at 5:30 a.m. just before leaving to catch my plan home.

Back in Utah, I was picked up by my "sicker than me" brother. We have spent the day attempting to heal our bodies with lots of sleep, gatorade and even a Jamba Juice......but non the less we are still plagued witht the flu.

So yes, I am in a fight with my immune system. All I have to say to my fledging immune system is to try harder. I am 32 years old....in all that time you would think that my immune system would have built up a resistance to at least some of these nasty little bugs floating around out there. I think it is just being lazy and unmotivated. So to my immune system I say.....TRY HARDER....I am sick of being sick!

The Chair....

2009-10-18T20:05:00.002-06:00

Jenn and I found this fab fabric in the fashion district to recover her apartment chair. After 1 movie and several episodes of "How I Met Your Mother" we finished. Isn't it just fabulous! :)

BEFORE: Yucky

AFTER: Fabulous

-- Post From Jocelyn's iPhone

Welcome to L.A.

2009-10-17T00:07:00.001-06:00

Today Jenn and I ventured to L.A. For new and exciting adventures. After spending the day in Disneyland yesterday ( pictures including costumes to come) we were ready to set off on a new adventure.

Stop #1: Mood Fabrics - for anyone who is a Project Runway fan thus is the LA branch of the fabric store the contestants always visit. It is truly amazing. Just imagine a huge warehouse packed full of every kind of apparal fabric. Heaven

Stop #2: Fashion District - this is a combo of high fashion meets canal street. We found a great giraffe fabric that we are using to making a slip cover for Jenn's chair. This way fun

Stop #3: Getty Museum - Gorgeous Location, Amazing architecture, and beautiful art. The Getty has just moved into my top 5 favorite museums. Check out the pics.

Stop #4: Santa Monica - We ended our adventure with a walk down festive 3rd Street, dinner at a great Italian restaurant, and a quick stop into a shoe store to add to my relucant collection of sensible shoes.
-- Post From Jocelyn's iPhone

I'm leavin on a jet plane...

2009-10-14T16:40:00.001-06:00

I am sitting in the Salt Lake Airport waiting for my flight to Long Beach. I am so ready for a vacation! I have slept less than 3 hours a night for the last week and worked like 20 hour days including the weekend. Oooohhhh, I am so not caught up to leave.

But really when is there ever a good time to leave the office. Now don't get me wrong I am happy to have a great job during this recession. However I am so on the verge of a complete meltdown. Just a few weeks ago I was weighing the benefits of a life in prison.....and it seemed attractive. I mean you are fed, clothed, sheltered, and educated for free. Also, no one wants or expects anything of you. I know doesn't it sound wonderful. While I am vacationing please give me suggestions of felony with a 1 to 3 year term. I think that will be a perfect vacation time :). P.S. No violent crimes please.....once you go down that path no one will really hang out with you.... Except maybe covert assasin.....that would be OK.

-- Post From Jocelyn's iPhone

WELCOME TO DETROIT....

2009-08-02T08:00:00.002-06:00

Detroit really and truly is one of the coolest metropolitan cities in the United States. I know...You are thinking, how can a place with 15% unemployment, one of the highest crime rates and general lack of maintenance be the so amazing? Let me convince you. Let's start with the retro cool skyline below.

How about the birth of Motown, mass vehicle production, Kellogg cereals, Henry Ford. Not to mention, a rich history as a destination in the underground railroad. One of my favorite parts of Detroit is the retro architectural beauty of the buildings. Most cities have torn these architectural gems down to build new but in Detroit they are still standing in honor of a time long past.

In addition to this rich history, the Detroit of today houses people with a proud cultural heritage from Poland, Multiple Middle Eastern Countries, Italy, Armenia, Europe, Latin America. I love walking around the streets of Michigan and seeing all the diversity of culture, ethnicity, religion....etc. It is beautiful.

As part of you recent trip to Michigan...Rach, Tony and I took Brent to downtown Detroit to a Tigers Game.
Tigers stadium is such a fun place to watch a baseball game and while checking out Detroit's amazing skyline.

We had a great time cheering for the Tigers as they battle the Whitesox in one of my favorite major league stadiums. You can't beat the unique energy you can fell watching a legendary team like the Tigers play...it just makes proud to be part of our national pastime. To use a baseball analogy the city of Detroit may be one or two strikes out but don't count them out... I hope Detroit will once again pull out a WIN.

BOOK REVIEW: 4 LAWS OF FINANCIAL PROSPERITY

2009-08-01T08:00:00.002-06:00

On the plane ride back from Detroit, I was finally able to dive into The 4 Laws of Financial Prosperity: Get Control of Your Money Now!.....and it was GREAT!

Fans of the Og Mandino will enjoy this book's familiar style. The author teaches sound personal finance principles in the context of a narrative between a patient teacher and a financially struggling student. I don't know about you, but I have made both good and bad personal financial choices of the years. Sometimes it can be easy to forget that the best financial management is achieved by:

Tracking your expense (know where the money goes)

Targeting you goals (what do I want in the future)

Trimming you spending (live on less than you make)

Training yourself to invest (get that interest working for you)

I would strongly recommend this book. It is a quick and easy way to learn sound financial skills that will insure a strong financial future.

A Walk Down Memory Lane...

2009-07-31T11:07:00.005-06:00

I tried this on facebook and had some really fun memory moments....some from way back when . Thanks to all who posted on Facebook.

Now for the bloggers.....when you read this, even if we don't speak often, post a comment with a memory of you and I. When you're finished, post this paragraph on your blog you'll be surprised at what people remember about you.

Kevin G. Carter
Passing in the halls of Franklin Covey I remember an eternal smile and you always willing to chat about the latest movie.

Scott Landy
Working with you on volume forecasting at Ford. I hope you are doing well.

Suzanne Daines
Sunday dinner at your place in AA...

Christopher Matteson
I remember swinging by your cube at RCB when we worked at Ford. You were at RCB right? That's not a false memory is it? I also remember groups of people grabbing lunch together around different Dearborn restaurants.

Lovice Richards Briggs
I remember spending Sunday afternoons at your's & Tanya Boyer's apartment, in between church & FHE. We had so much fun.

Lisa Cloward Barrager
All the fun AA activities, Dearborn delights and of course the so fun white water rafting trips to

Kristen Fields
Las Vegas at Easter with all the bunnies.. Still one of my favorite memories. That and not being able to remember the hotel room and knocking on doors on the wrong floor.

Rachael Brinton
I remember Jhall65 storming down the institute aisle with an entourage wearing your geometric jersey wrap dress my first Sunday in AA. I remember the trip where we bought something in every store we entered. I remember the birth of the post chat chat in the parking lot of your apt. complex where you lived across the speed bump from Bibe. I ... Read Moreremember how I felt during your last church talk in AA about what you know. I remember how I felt after your last breakfast in AA and watching you drive off to the West. Most importantly I know nothing is as much fun without you there! Love you!

Donette Taggart Barker
I remember having a sleep over at your house where we played all kinds of ghost games and I remember being so freaked out!

Heather Nielsen Strasser
I remember circle walks late at night in which we did indeed solve the world's problems. I remember gripping the steering wheel of the Tercel because it was hot and there was no power steering and we were parallel parked. I remember you sleeping on my couch on a recruiting trip to BYU. I felt so lucky to have you at my house. I remember the day you got baptized. I remember lots and lots of laughs. So glad you are in so many of my memories Joc! You are a gem.

Rachel Burnette Stabenow
I just remember back in the day doin alot of church things together (as groups)

Alexis Serote Clemans
A favorite memory of mine was the dukes of hazzard birthday party!

Olga Longan
I remember right after I came to FCSD, you came into my office to review the budget. You were a bit nervous but I remember thinking that you were a really smart young lady...

Jessica Larsen Olsen
I could go on and on. Circle walks, LPU, Pepsi, you backing over stuff, playing Dukes of Hazzard in our cars, Gary Taylor, 6pm most days, Jiffy Stop, Jardines, Van Halen, movies, you burning my children (hee hee), your platinum blond days, me cooking you dinner. Well I'd better stop but there is more!

Dani Johnson

You leaving Rita's house in one outfit, me following in my own car, us both arriving in AA without ever stopping, and you in a completely different outfit. Yo

My 10 pounds of flesh....or hopefully fat

2009-07-13T17:53:00.007-06:00

I was invited to the Larsen home for dinner on Sunday. Kathy made a wonderful meal of flank steak, homemade rolls, salad, etc (I didn't realize it would be my last meal).

After dinner, the whole crew went for the usual Sunday walk around the Kaysville Cemetery. It was a summer day filled with good food, entertaining company and lovely activities the perfect scene for.....Yes, you guessed it, the plotting of yet another weight loss bet. Let the games begin......

The Big Weight Loss Bet rules include:

Each person must contribute $50 to play the game.
Winner is determined by the first person to lose 10.0 pounds from his or her starting weight.
Then the real test begins....that person must maintain his/her new weight for 2 weeks or another winner will be chosen

My Monday morning began with a uplifting weigh-in session (yea me)! I am really going to need some help. Did I mention that I am dealing with some pretty competitive people here? I believe Mike is planning some form of starvation mixed with dehydration. Jessica is crazed fitness queen. Really, you can't count anyone out since none of us are planning on losing.

So I say....choose to support Team Jocelyn! Please send me you best tips for quick but maintainable weight loss or contributions for Liposuction.....sssshhhh......remember this is a competition so don't tell any of the Larsen's.

P.S.
I am also open to ideas for sabotaging the competition if necessary. What can I say....I play to win. :)

25 Random Things About Me...

2009-07-07T16:41:00.005-06:00

I love random....someone sent this challenge to me and I thought it was great. Here is my list of random tidbits about me. Please leave a comment with a random insight into the world of YOU!

1. I secretly believe that I am the lost heir to a royal bloodline and it is just a matter of time before my people find me and restore me to my rightful position

2. My biggest weakness is ice cream in all its forms...good, bad, high fat, fat free, all flavors....I have no control

3. I love almost every movie I see

4. I can not sing a note on key to save my life yet I love to sing

5. I believe that people are good and are usually trying to do what they believe is right

6. A good hairstylist is a cornerstone of a good life

7. I dislike almost all the "white" condiments

8. I love to be in shape but quickly lose motivation for my exercise plans unless there is some sort of public accountability

9. I can not spell

10. I feel like I am supposed to do something great with my life but I can not quite remember what it is

11. I consider myself a convert to the Mormon church...I joined at 16

12. My best day would include: water, water skiing, 90+ degree temperatures, great friends, and beverages

13. I would like to live my life in a swimsuit and flip flops

14. As a kid I really wanted a pet dolphin, monkey, and horse. I even made a diagram, for my parents, of the horse stable we could build on our 1/2 acre residential lot.

15. As a kid, I liked to write stories and plays

16. I love to organize via spreadsheet

17. I love to sew (mostly clothing lately)

18. I love home improvement projects....I especially like catching the helpers at home depot off guard when I actually know what I am talking about.

19. I think all snakes and snake-like creatures should be exterminated. They freak me out.

20. My biggest fans tend to be men under 8 and over 60

21. At least once a month I crave Pizza Pappalis Pizza from Detroit

22. I have lived in two of the murder capitals (Detroit and D.C.)

23. I would love to live in a foreign country for awhile

24. I love to start projects but hate to do repetitive tasks

25. I use algebra in my day-to-day life and like it

So You Think You Can Dance...

2009-07-01T21:31:00.004-06:00

Yes, I am that girl....the one who counts down the days until the next week's "So You Think You Can Dance" episode. I then watch each dance with jealous longing often rewinding my favorites. I did a little dancing back in the day and every time I watch these dancers I am in complete awe. My favorite dance from this weeks episode is a vampire themed contemporary number by Kayla and Kupono. AMAZING!

Lake Powell University: 2009 Graduating Class...

2009-07-01T10:24:00.010-06:00

I have just returned from a wonderful week in Lake Powell with the Larsen Family. We had so much fun swimming to Lizard Rock, rocketing down the houseboat's slide, jumping off cliffs (OK, maybe it was just a big rock but it looked like a cliff), roasting marshmallows on the beach and of course boating. This year I remembered to bring along my Flip Video Camera I love this little toy....here a some of my favorite videos. I would like to give a shout out to Isaac for his mad videographer skills.

ISAAC: THE PROFESSIONAL WAKE BOARDER

ISAAC: YES, I CAN SKI TOO

DAVID: AIR CHAIR CRAZINESS

JACK: LEARNING TO SKI

WADE: WORKIN IT OUT ON THE WAKE BOARD

WADE: TACKLING THE AIR CHAIR

JASON: THE AIR CHAIR BATTLE CONTINUES

You Matter...

2009-06-15T18:23:00.007-06:00

When you love the work you do and the people you do it with, you matter.

When you are so gracious and generous and aware that you think of other people before yourself, you matter.

When you leave the world a better place than you found it, you matter.

When you continue to raise the bar on what you do and how you do it, you matter.

When you teach and forgive and teach more before you rush to judge and demean, you matter.

When you touch the people in your life through your actions (and your words), you matter.

When kids grow up wanting to be you, you matter.

When you see the world as it is, but insist on making it more like it could be, you matter.

When you inspire a Nobel prize winner or a slum dweller, you matter.

When the room brightens when you walk in, you matter.

And when the legacy you leave behind lasts for hours, days or a lifetime, you matter.

This is a post from Seth Godins Blog http://sethgodin.typepad.com/seths_blog/. He is the author of some interesting business/general life books like Tribes and Purple Cow as well as one of my favorite bloggers. This is a blog I read everyday. Seth seems to bring and interesting and refreshing perspective to the world around us. Today's blog was especially touching becuase I often wonder if what I do in my day to day life makes and impact on the world or the people I love. Seth's tribute to the greatness in each of us reminded me that who I am and what I do MATTERS.

Facebook Quizes....

2009-06-03T16:22:00.004-06:00

Welcome to Social Networking....via Facebook. Now you can tell the whole Facebook world exactly what you are doing from moment to moment. And, as if that were not enough, you can find friendS you haven't seen in years, add them to your friends list, and suddenly you have access to their daily lives. Amazing!

However, the real value of Facebook is in providing yet another way to waste time....my personal favorites are Facebook Quizzes. Below is my latest attempt of self discovery via Facebook Quiz. The scary part is when they are somewhat accurate.

Jocelyn took the Which color is your aura? quiz and the result is ORANGE!

Orange personalities are the creative adventurers in the color spectrum. They have an inner urge to be creative, active and enjoy life to its fullest. They are also individual and independent and integrate physical and mental qualities. They enjoy the challenge and excitement of forming and shaping physical reality. Orange personalities love to imagine and plan strategies for their next adventure or project and then put those plans into action. They need to be involved in the actual working process and want to physically shape and form their own ideas. They have difficulty sitting back and letting other people do things for them. They are always busy building, organizing and shaping their projects and physical reality. An Orange personality's motivation in life is based on how much pleasure and satisfaction they get out of their own adventures, challenges and creative projects. They want to be adventurous, creative and live out their own ideas.

My Electronic Leash....

2009-05-29T17:03:00.009-06:00

OK...I am a total gadget junkie....especially phones. Maybe I am just making up for lost time since I didn't get my first cell phone until I was 23. I now have this compelling need to have the latest gadget out there.

Today I have the Apple I-Phone...which I of course love. It has all these fun features like apps, email, electronic calendar, contact management, White Pages, GPS directions, Facebook, games, Pandora radio, music, YouTube and it is even a phone too. All these options create a menagerie of ways you can be contacted anywhere and anytime which I love except when I don't.

Sometimes I crave the anonymity of the Pre-Cell Phone Era. I love being able to disappear for a couple of hours without the world sending out a Amber Alert because I have not responded to a phone message/email/text/Facebook post. So yes, sometimes I cut the electronic leash....turn off my cell phone....sit on my porch swing....and remember the good old days. Wow....I really sound like a old lady now. :)

Victory Dance

2009-05-20T21:22:00.011-06:00

A couple of days ago my coworker Clinton forwarded this video to the finance department with the following explanation:

I am not 100% certain, but I can say with 92% confidence this is the dance I saw Jocelyn do right after she submitted her last journal entry for the April close.

When you are completing your 67th monthly accounting close at Franklin Covey you must find ways to make the process fun. I have done everything from making a competition of completing balance sheets to announcing my supremacy when I complete my final journal entry and even taking a victory lap around the cul-de-sac of cubicles but I must say I have never done a victory dance......or at least not one for public display. However, it appears the time has come for me to break out my booty rockin skills....so my response to the team was the following:

Yes Clinton, this is a cheap imitation of my "the last journal entry" victory dance. As you of course know, my version will include back flips, sequined costumes, and pyrotechnics. I must commend short shorts guy on his attempt to replicate the master.

No I am not dead.....

2009-05-18T13:52:00.006-06:00

Every time I can't get a hold of my sister, brother or friend Bibe, I leave them a message that just says "Are you Dead"! I know this is gruesome and morbid but it usually gets a quick return phone call to confirm the "not deadness". Since it has been so long since I posted to my blog I decided to confirm via blog that I am in fact "not dead". It has been an insanely busy few weeks with work, family, personal and project demands on time I just seem to keep falling further behind on my blasted task list. So here is the bullet point version of the last little bit:

Attended Bibe's wedding....it was a beautiful event. The highlights for me were seeing Bibe in her wedding dress, meeting Bibe's nieces/nephews, meeting Tony's daughter, and embarrassing both Rach and Tony during my toast. Yes, my work is done here. I also got to play stand in wedding coordinator the day of the wedding....let me tell you if you have a purple folder and a look of authority people will do anything you say! :)

Broke myself ....again! In training for the Wasatch Back relay event each time I would run I found that I was in a great deal of pain. After a brief visit to the local witchdoctor, I found that I have a compressed disc in my lower back. Basically this means broken. I am now on a low impact, take it easy routine for a couple weeks. I am not the low impact, take it easy type so it has not been really successful. However, I am getting to attend a lot of yoga classes. :)
Added my first vegetable garden to my gardening resume. After my indentured servant (aka my brother Brent) removed 10 nasty old pushes and tilled by hand my new garden spot, I was able to plant my first little vegetable garden. I am so excited for fresh tomato sandwiches this summer.
Continuing with the broken theme, at one point in the last month we only had one functioning vehicle at my house. Now for some people this would not be out of the ordinary but there a not fewer than 5 vehicles at my house and a boat. With all of these options you would think something would work but instead my brother and I were ride sharing his 1987 corvette with questionable braking. We are back to two functioning vehicles which is still a pretty poor average (33%).

So those are the highlights I can remember from the last few weeks. Just another round of normal life filled with excitement, joy, breaking, fixing....

Grand America Bread Pudding...

2009-03-13T10:19:00.005-06:00

Every year as Christmas parties approach, I look forward to one specific culinary event....The Franklin Covey Innovations Group Luncheon at the Grand America Garden Cafe. All the food at the Garden Cafe is lovely but the Bread Pudding is what has me salivating hours before we even enter the building. Imagine the perfect blend of of wonderful buttery croissant based pudding topped with a luscious rum sauce. What has elicited this little trip down the memory lane.....the best find of all time by Jen Ward from Bookies. She not only found the recipe but posted it on her blog recently. So in the spirit of peace on earth and goodwill toward men, I present you with the recipe for Grand America Bread Pudding. Enjoy!

Bread Pudding

1 c. Whole eggs, whisked (this was about 4 extra large eggs)
1/2 lb. granulated sugar1 cinnamon stick3 c. heavy cream
1 T. vanilla extract
12 - 16 oz croissants

Preheat oven to 400.Whisk eggs and set aside. Heat the cream with the sugar, cinnamon stick and vanilla extract. Heat until hot but not simmering. Whisk the eggs into the hot mixture, then strain and set aside. In a separate bowl, break up croissants in small pieces. Pour the custard over the bread and mix well. Let the bread soak the custard for 10 minutes. Distribute into a baking dish and cover with foil. Place the dish in a larger pan filled with 1-inch of hot water. Bake for 60 minutes at 400 degrees or until knife comes out clean.

Rum Sauce

8.5 oz granulated sugar
5.5 dark brown sugar
2/3 c. apple juice
3/4 c. heavy cream
1 tsp. rum extract (or 1 1/2 T. real Rum)
1 c. unsalted butter

Place sugar, brown sugar, apple juice, heavy cream and rum in a sauce pan, stir to combine. Bring to a boil and boil for 5 minutes. Remove from heat. With a submersion blender, blend in the butter. Keep the blender going for 4-5 minutes. Cool the sauce in an ice bath until at room temp. Keep in fridge, covered until ready to serve.

Winter Ski Club....

2009-03-06T12:04:00.032-07:00

Welcome to Winter Ski Club!

Founding Members: Jocelyn "Old School" Hall, Ryan "Belly Flop" Hershberger, Matt "You can ride the lift down" Bergstrom.

Slogan: It is not how well you ski but how well you enjoy it. :)

Traditions (to be observed at all costs):

Dinner at Squatters.

Everyone must take at least one really good or really embarrassing fall.

Boys must rent a slightly effeminate vehicle like a baby blue PT Cruiser.

The morning drug parade (coffee, soda, crack...whatever it takes to get you moving in the morning, we won't judge)

Every summer for the past 6 or 7 years the Summer Ski Club (SSC) ventures to one of the most beautiful lakes in Northern Michigan for 4 days of play hardened watter skiing, wake boarding and general entertainment. This year two of the SSC member joined me in Utah for some serious alpine styled play hardening. Then, like a flash of inspiration it came to us.....we need a Winter Ski Club (WSC). Lucky for us, I live within minutes of the best ski resorts in the world and that ladies in gentlemen is how the WSC was founded.

Our Mascot: Hershberger not only skis like a maniac but he was also up almost every morning to go for a little (6 mile) jog. Now that is play hardened! Matt gets the runner up award for Mascot with points for maniac skiing as well as at least one day of running.

Our Team: I joined the other WSC founding members for a beautiful day of skiing at Snowbasin resort. Our gondola of high speed fun included Matt, Jocelyn, Ryan, Brent (our only snowboarding member), Elizabeth (Brent's girlfriend and also my personal ski coach....I want to be her when I grow up), Julia (Elizabeth's sister who is also an amazing skier).

Now for a little R&R: Ok, so I am not the play hardened crazy skier I once was. On the last run of the day I opted for the couch in the super plush Snowbasin lodge (golden chandeliers, roaring fireplace and super comfy couches). We then concluded our adventure with a Sushi extravaganza in Park City and a nightcap at a bar called the Sidecar. As a side note, it has been a while since I have been to a real bar....Hershberger and I spend most of the time Mystery Science Theatering other peoples conversations....good times :)

Membership Requirements:

Skills: Participation in at least one alpine sport. Multi sport applicants will be given preferential treatment.

Funess: This will be measured by a panel of Fun Experts using a 1-10 scale. The minimum requirement for application is a 9.235.

Donations: Generous donation to the "Hot tub for Jocelyn's House" fund. This is an absolute necessity of any self respecting Winter Ski Club

Please submit you application immediately space is unlimited.

"BRIDAL SHOWER"

2009-03-06T12:04:00.022-07:00

Yes, these words strike fear, induce flashbacks or even cause nausea for many. I am sure that you, like me, have been witness to more than one "BRIDAL SHOWER".

Through my early twenties, the Bridal Shower seemed to be synonymous with crazy games including but not limited to the ceremonial creating of a wedding dresses using only a roll of toilet paper. Or, how about the quiz to determine how well you know the Bride & Groom (can we say test anxiety)? I once even attended a bridal shower that lasted 5 hours including 2 meals, 10 games, 2 rounds of present opening.....and I left early.

As my friends and I matured, we moved into the age of "The Bridal Shower Luncheon" with appropriately practical themes of Kitchen, Linens or Bathroom Accessories. My masterful skill with a toilet paper roll replaced by the Target Registry.

So what do bridal shower veterans like myself, Brinton, and Angie do when faced with the prospect of hosting this rite of passage for one of our own.

WE SHOP OF COURSE! :)

Not only do we shop but we reserve one of Bibe's favorite boutiques throw in some amazing gourmet pizza a splash of Diet Pepsi and a side of home made goodies.....now you have a real celebration! Lest you worry, all the traditional requirements were observed:

Universal stress over what to wear: CHECK
Forced individual introduction of all guests: CHECK
Embarrassing moment when Bride (while starring at her mom) realizes that the cake platter she just unwrapped is filled with sexy black lace lingerie: CHECK, CHECK :)
Male Stripper: CHECK...wait...hold on...no...CANCELLED. This one was vetoed by the Moral Compass however Tony did make a brief appearance :)

In the end, twenty of Bibe's closest friends were able to gather together on a snowy Saturday afternoon to celebrate our wonderful friend as she embarks on her life's next adventure.

My Superhero name is...

2009-02-23T16:25:00.005-07:00

Back to one of my favorite themes....Superheros. I saw this on Whitney's blog and fell in love with the idea. My Superhero Name is:

The Fearless Defender

Now if I can just find the spandex outfit and flowing cape I will be ready to begin my quest to save the world.

Get your Superhero Name Generator at Quizopolis.com

The Wedding Dress....No not my wedding silly :)

2009-01-28T15:05:00.009-07:00

My good friend Bibe has decided to ditch this single life and get married. Or maybe, it is that she finally found the right guy and decided that marriage could be as fun as being single. Either way, we are all lucky that her Mr. Right is Tony. These two are so very well matched it is a bit scary sometimes.

Lucky for me Bibe has mercifully decided she will not force her friends and family to wear some taffeta monstrosity in a strange color like chartreuse or persimmon. Her only request is that we all wear a solid color that will coordinate with her Purple/Grey color scheme. I have been holding on to this beautiful Vogue pattern waiting patiently (this is a total lie...like I have ever waited patiently in my life) for the opportunity to make a Fancy Party Dress.

The plan is to create something wonderful using this Vogue pattern, 7 yards of navy blue silk shantung fabric and some sewing skills (I may need to develop most of these along the way). I am predicting this will go one of two ways, I will either create a beautiful Party Dress OR there will be a large bonfire in my backyard fueled by silk shantung fabric. Both options seem exciting. Wish me luck!

P.S.

Any advice, counseling, condolences, medication, etc will be gladly accepted

3 CUPS OF TEA...

2009-01-25T19:00:00.009-07:00

Wow....I just finished reading Three Cups of Tea: One Man's Mission to Promote Peace . . . One School at a Time. This is one of the most inspiring stories I have ever read. As Tom Brokhaw states in his review "it's proof that one ordinary person, with the right combination of character and determination, really can change the world."

For more information visit: http://www.threecupsoftea.com/

The story centers around climber Greg Mortenson's promise to build a school for children in Pakistan following his failed attempt to summit K2 . Greg quickly learns of the overwhelming need and desire for education by children in areas surround K2. Due to the instability of the governments in these areas, most children's only opportunity for education was in overcrowded/underfunded state schools or well funded extreme fundemental madras's..only for the boys.

As is documented in the book, Greg Mourtisen establishes the Central Asia Institute to help meet these needs. To date, the institute has successfully built 78 schools in Pakistan and Afghanistan providing a balanced non biased education to over 28,000 students.

For more information visit the Central Asia Institute at: http://www.ikat.org/

The results of this one man's vision are truly amazing. However, I found the courage exemplified by Greg Mourtenson to be the most inspiring. While failing to achieve a life long goal to summit K2, Greg was humble enough to see the extreme need standing right in front of him. What Greg did next is what sets his story apart...He made a promise and then worked and sacrificed to deliver on that promise despite all barriers. Upon completion of the first school, when most would walk away feeling fulfilled...patting themselves on the back for a job well done, he moved forward making another promise, taking another challenge, changing another life.

I hope to have my heart open to these opportunities in my life and pray that I will have the courage to fulfill my promise and then go beyond as Greg did.

Peaceful Transfer of Power...

2009-01-22T15:24:00.003-07:00

Midway through our team meeting last week, we paused to watch President Barack Obama's Inauguration Speech. As our group of democrats and republicans....conservatives and liberals sat together watching our 44th President address our nation, I marveled at the inspired beauty of our democratic process. In so many nations across this earth, major political changes cause genocide, war, rebellion, separation and general chaos. Our country is so blessed to have been founded on core values and Democratic principals. I am thankful for the inspired vision of our founding fathers in establishing a system of checks and balances that allow each of us to feel safe, secure, and engaged as citizens of this nation.

A Little Spanish Flavor...

2009-01-13T07:00:00.002-07:00

Several days ago I went to dinner at my good friends Heather and Michael's House. The menu included Paella a traditional Spanish Dish and Sangria a favorite Spanish beverage. The wonderful flavors of this meal transported me back to a trip the girls and I took in 2003 to Spain. Spain is a beautiful country of rich history and cultures. My favorites experiences of the trip included:

The Alhambra: A palace of Moorish rulers in Granada in Southern Spain. Walking through the palace you feel a part of a grand adventure like Arabian Nights or Aladdin.

Barcelona: One of the most beautiful cities I have ever visited. The buildings, art, and people are just gorgeous. The highlights for me were visiting various Gaudi building and sculptures. His architecture is so unique and inspiring. Gaudi was not afraid to throw away all architectural norms and create something so different and beautiful.

We also had the opportunity to visit a Picasso museum showing a visual timeline of his artist development. This experience completely changed they way I view abstract artist to this day. Picasso may have been one of the most accomplished artist ever.

If you ever have a chance, I would suggest visiting the intriguing culture of Spain.

Non Alcoholic Sangria

1/4 c. Splenda or Sugar

1 c. orange juice

1 tbsp. Rosie's Lime Juice

sliced1/2 fresh lemon

sliced1/2 fresh orange

4 c. Diet 7-Up

4 c. Light Cranberry Grape juice

In large pitcher, combine orange juice, sugar, and grape juice. Add cut fruit and stir until sugar is dissolved. Refrigerate until cool and add 7-Up just before serving.

24: Season 7

2009-01-12T13:41:00.003-07:00

Yes....Jack is back and I couldn't be more excited. Not only is Jack back but so it Tony (who we dubbed shifty eyes in Season 1). With just 2 episodes of Season 7 completed, I am already sucked into the world of Jack Bauer. As I sink into the conspiracy soaked plot I am questioning each characters alliances, intentions, motives and end game.

Place to visit before I die...

2009-01-11T13:30:00.031-07:00

I love the book 1,000 Places to See Before You Die: A Traveler's Life List. As I was flipping through the this book the other day I found tons and tons of places I that are must sees for me. Here are some of my favorites.

GREECE

TURKEY

RUSSIA

EGYPT

AUSTRALIA

JERUSALEM

And an order of cheese fries...

2009-01-06T15:54:00.008-07:00

The evil temptress shown above has once again managed to thwart all efforts to achieve my physical development goals (see previous post). In an devious plot to derail my plan, the Training Table Cheese Fries crafted a cunning scheme with a side car of Ultimate Dipping Sauce. This duo whispered promises of cheesy deep fried goodness slathered in a mysteriously wonderful sauce. Alas, I was not strong enough to to thwart the evil monster and I succumbed. Looks like this broken fitness warrior will need to regather her forces and join the battle again tomorrow.

Viva La Freedom Fries!